Why do some women respond to alpha male advances and then complain how badly they get treated by some of them but still ignore the nice, sensitive, and quieter men?

[Answered on Quora.com by Franklin Veaux]

They don’t.

This tired old saw is the last gasp of men who can’t get laid and can’t understand why.

“Women” don’t respond to “Alpha male jerks” and “women” don’t complain about it. Some few individual women do, but “women” as a class do not.

Your question has the answer to why you can’t find a woman. You’re quiet. That means, you don’t go out and engage with women.

If you want a girlfriend, you have to go out and engage with women. You have to meet women. You have to talk to women. What do you expect, that some stranger will come knock on your door and say “Here I am, take me now?” That isn’t how it works.

I feel like this shouldn’t be hard to understand. If you don’t engage with women, you will have difficulty finding a girlfriend.