Thursday, February 22, 2024
Monday, February 19, 2024
How old were you when you parents hit you for the last time? Have you forgiven them?
[Anwered on Quora.com by Siân Orr]
My father beat me, punched me, and sexually assaulted me. The last time, I was 25 years old. For some reason, I kept forgiving him and kept seeing him.
But the last time, I was at his house having dinner with him. His wife was working. He got a little drunk, and had a go at me (once again). And slapped me across the face.
I stormed out of his house, shouted something, drove home to my flat, got to my room and burst into tears.
My flatmates came to comfort me, and I told them what happened.
That was the last time I saw him for 25 years. The very last time, he was on his death bed…. frail and 3 hours away from death - unable to speak.
I told him I forgave him for everything.
But after he passed, I emotionally broke down and it took months to recover. In my heart, I realised that I don't forgive him.
My father beat me, punched me, and sexually assaulted me. The last time, I was 25 years old. For some reason, I kept forgiving him and kept seeing him.
But the last time, I was at his house having dinner with him. His wife was working. He got a little drunk, and had a go at me (once again). And slapped me across the face.
I stormed out of his house, shouted something, drove home to my flat, got to my room and burst into tears.
My flatmates came to comfort me, and I told them what happened.
That was the last time I saw him for 25 years. The very last time, he was on his death bed…. frail and 3 hours away from death - unable to speak.
I told him I forgave him for everything.
But after he passed, I emotionally broke down and it took months to recover. In my heart, I realised that I don't forgive him.
Wednesday, February 14, 2024
Monday, February 12, 2024
Is the meat in Arby's sandwiches really roast beef?
[Answered on Quora.com by George Higginson]
I have been in the retail meat industry for more decades than most of the world has been alive. I was a meat cleanup, a meat cutter, meat manager, meat supervisor, meat buyer, and meat director. This encompasses every rung on the ladder from the bottom to the top. I also created (and currently create and maintain) programs that manage and maintain retail pricing in all meat categories; fresh meat, lunch meats, frozen meats, etc. Therefore, I know meat. I know the animal from which it comes, what is done with it, and I know the end product in all its many forms. I can look at any cut of meat and tell you what it is, and what it is not.
There is no doubt that Arby’s roast beef is actually beef. But, your beef sandwich is not sliced from a chunk of roast beef like top or bottom round, sirloin, etc. I will explain.
First: chicken and turkeys: when any animal is processed and the meat removed from the bone, there is inevitably a bit of meat still on the bone. Rather than lose this product, the bones go through a process that removes the remaining meat off the bone. Mixed with this salvaged meat there is also bone and connective tissue. This is done with every animal protein, including beef. However, salvaged beef is no longer used for human consumption, so breathe a sigh of relief; there is no pink slime in Arby’s beef.
Salvaged material is used in a variety of products, including hot dogs and lunch meats. A maximum of 20% slime is allowed. While mid quality turkey and chicken products are likely free of the white slime, there is no guarantee that the cheaper brands can make that claim. Whether or not slime is used, turkey or chicken is ground and mixed with liquids and seasoning, turned into slurry, and pumped into a bag that is shaped like a breast, and cooked. They look beautiful on display in your deli. They look like a real breast. Most of the time they are not. It starts out as slushy slurry, and ends up as lunch meat. It is very easy to look at a slice of turkey, chicken, or ham that you buy in a deli. If it is smooth with the occasional bit of fat and gelatin, it is a slurry product. If it has actual muscle grain through the whole slice (and not just here and there), and looks like your thanksgiving turkey breast, or a Costco chicken breast, then it is an actual piece of meat off the animal. If not, it is cooked slurry. This is what Arby’s uses for turkey sandwiches, and is the product used for any chicken or turkey lunch meats you buy at a reasonable price. If it is real whole-muscle product, it is not cheap. Just look for muscle grain to know.
Now what about Arby’s beef? Yes, it is beef. No, it is not whole-muscle roast. Therefore, it is a processed meat, but no pink slime; salvaged beef is no longer allowed for human consumption. It was at one time, so even Arby’s may have had it back then, but I can’t confirm that one way or the other. Arby’s roast beef is created by mixing beef with water, salt, and sodium phosphates. It is 95% beef muscle tissue and 5% other ingredients. It is turned into a slurry, pumped into a roast-shaped bag, and frozen. It is then shipped to the restaurant, where it is cooked for four hours, and sliced to order.
To explain-away the fact that Arby’s roast beef feels mushy in the bag before it is cooked, a spokesman for Arby’s once explained that the product arrives at the restaurant in a bag, floating in gelatin, and said that the gelatin was likely the cause of the mushiness. This is certainly disingenuous, as the actual meat slurry in the bag is not firm until it is cooked.
So Arby’s beef starts out as actual beef, is turned into mushy, sludgy slurry, and becomes a roast beef sandwich. The process avoids waste, and keeps costs down. Though the process may sound unappetizing when scrutinized, the end result is good enough to keep a company going since 1964.
If there are any errors in my descriptions and assertions, I am open to correction. However, please present actual facts devoid of deflection or subject to interpretation; these are industry-wide processes that have been in place for decades. The information is out there for all to see if they look.
Time for a sad update: I have been informed by Dave Savage, and confirmed through written FDA regulations, that mechanically separated meat is now allowed again for human consumption. It is allowed in ground beef, as well as deli products such as hot dogs, bologna, and sausages. As far as I can tell, it still cannot be used in roast beef type products, as it is classified as ground beef. If you find a roast beef product that includes “ground beef” in the ingredients, you can be sure it is mechanically separated beef.
Another update: I’ve been asked why there is a concern with mechanically separated beef. When you consider what you are getting, it really is basically just finely ground beef. However, there is one difference that will concern some shoppers: regular ground beef that is produced in plants can contain up to 101 ppm of ammonia. Ammonia gas is used during the production process to prevent bacterial growth, and there is a residual amount left in the beef. However, mechanically separated beef is allowed to have 200 ppm of ammonia. So I suppose the concern would be that salvaged beef has double the ammonia. It is interesting to note that one report states that regular ground beef that you buy in the store can have up to 15% of this product and still be called ground beef. This is a bit confusing, because the product itself is now classified as ground beef by the USDA. This merits some investigation, but I will leave that to an enterprising author who wants to tackle the investigation.
I have been in the retail meat industry for more decades than most of the world has been alive. I was a meat cleanup, a meat cutter, meat manager, meat supervisor, meat buyer, and meat director. This encompasses every rung on the ladder from the bottom to the top. I also created (and currently create and maintain) programs that manage and maintain retail pricing in all meat categories; fresh meat, lunch meats, frozen meats, etc. Therefore, I know meat. I know the animal from which it comes, what is done with it, and I know the end product in all its many forms. I can look at any cut of meat and tell you what it is, and what it is not.
There is no doubt that Arby’s roast beef is actually beef. But, your beef sandwich is not sliced from a chunk of roast beef like top or bottom round, sirloin, etc. I will explain.
First: chicken and turkeys: when any animal is processed and the meat removed from the bone, there is inevitably a bit of meat still on the bone. Rather than lose this product, the bones go through a process that removes the remaining meat off the bone. Mixed with this salvaged meat there is also bone and connective tissue. This is done with every animal protein, including beef. However, salvaged beef is no longer used for human consumption, so breathe a sigh of relief; there is no pink slime in Arby’s beef.
Salvaged material is used in a variety of products, including hot dogs and lunch meats. A maximum of 20% slime is allowed. While mid quality turkey and chicken products are likely free of the white slime, there is no guarantee that the cheaper brands can make that claim. Whether or not slime is used, turkey or chicken is ground and mixed with liquids and seasoning, turned into slurry, and pumped into a bag that is shaped like a breast, and cooked. They look beautiful on display in your deli. They look like a real breast. Most of the time they are not. It starts out as slushy slurry, and ends up as lunch meat. It is very easy to look at a slice of turkey, chicken, or ham that you buy in a deli. If it is smooth with the occasional bit of fat and gelatin, it is a slurry product. If it has actual muscle grain through the whole slice (and not just here and there), and looks like your thanksgiving turkey breast, or a Costco chicken breast, then it is an actual piece of meat off the animal. If not, it is cooked slurry. This is what Arby’s uses for turkey sandwiches, and is the product used for any chicken or turkey lunch meats you buy at a reasonable price. If it is real whole-muscle product, it is not cheap. Just look for muscle grain to know.
Now what about Arby’s beef? Yes, it is beef. No, it is not whole-muscle roast. Therefore, it is a processed meat, but no pink slime; salvaged beef is no longer allowed for human consumption. It was at one time, so even Arby’s may have had it back then, but I can’t confirm that one way or the other. Arby’s roast beef is created by mixing beef with water, salt, and sodium phosphates. It is 95% beef muscle tissue and 5% other ingredients. It is turned into a slurry, pumped into a roast-shaped bag, and frozen. It is then shipped to the restaurant, where it is cooked for four hours, and sliced to order.
To explain-away the fact that Arby’s roast beef feels mushy in the bag before it is cooked, a spokesman for Arby’s once explained that the product arrives at the restaurant in a bag, floating in gelatin, and said that the gelatin was likely the cause of the mushiness. This is certainly disingenuous, as the actual meat slurry in the bag is not firm until it is cooked.
So Arby’s beef starts out as actual beef, is turned into mushy, sludgy slurry, and becomes a roast beef sandwich. The process avoids waste, and keeps costs down. Though the process may sound unappetizing when scrutinized, the end result is good enough to keep a company going since 1964.
If there are any errors in my descriptions and assertions, I am open to correction. However, please present actual facts devoid of deflection or subject to interpretation; these are industry-wide processes that have been in place for decades. The information is out there for all to see if they look.
Time for a sad update: I have been informed by Dave Savage, and confirmed through written FDA regulations, that mechanically separated meat is now allowed again for human consumption. It is allowed in ground beef, as well as deli products such as hot dogs, bologna, and sausages. As far as I can tell, it still cannot be used in roast beef type products, as it is classified as ground beef. If you find a roast beef product that includes “ground beef” in the ingredients, you can be sure it is mechanically separated beef.
Another update: I’ve been asked why there is a concern with mechanically separated beef. When you consider what you are getting, it really is basically just finely ground beef. However, there is one difference that will concern some shoppers: regular ground beef that is produced in plants can contain up to 101 ppm of ammonia. Ammonia gas is used during the production process to prevent bacterial growth, and there is a residual amount left in the beef. However, mechanically separated beef is allowed to have 200 ppm of ammonia. So I suppose the concern would be that salvaged beef has double the ammonia. It is interesting to note that one report states that regular ground beef that you buy in the store can have up to 15% of this product and still be called ground beef. This is a bit confusing, because the product itself is now classified as ground beef by the USDA. This merits some investigation, but I will leave that to an enterprising author who wants to tackle the investigation.
Sunday, February 11, 2024
Has a child ever made a random comment to you that changed your life for the better?
[Answered on Quora.com by Lillie Tidwell]
We had visitors at church one Sunday. I always provide my young children with paper and pens to color or draw with so they don’t become bored during church. The visitors sat next to us. There were young children. I asked their mother if I could share my children’s pens and paper and she approved and thanked me. I passed out the supplies. The oldest child (approximately 5 years old) smiled the sweetest smile at me, thanked me for the pens and paper and said “You are so very kind!”. That small comment touched my heart in such a big way!
Now, I try very, very hard to do at least one kind thing for a stranger every day. It may be nothing more than a compliment, but, that compliment can make someone’s day.
Every Christmas, I order dozens of small, wooden Christmas ornaments. I keep these in my car and randomly pass them out. I had some in my handbag and was in a convenience store. The clerk seemed to be having a rough day. I pulled out one of the ornaments and slid it across the counter to her. Her entire demeanor instantly changed! She looked up at me and asked that I sign the back of the ornament. She said “I never want to forget the lady that made my day so much better!”.
It only takes a moment to change someone’s day. Be kind.
We had visitors at church one Sunday. I always provide my young children with paper and pens to color or draw with so they don’t become bored during church. The visitors sat next to us. There were young children. I asked their mother if I could share my children’s pens and paper and she approved and thanked me. I passed out the supplies. The oldest child (approximately 5 years old) smiled the sweetest smile at me, thanked me for the pens and paper and said “You are so very kind!”. That small comment touched my heart in such a big way!
Now, I try very, very hard to do at least one kind thing for a stranger every day. It may be nothing more than a compliment, but, that compliment can make someone’s day.
Every Christmas, I order dozens of small, wooden Christmas ornaments. I keep these in my car and randomly pass them out. I had some in my handbag and was in a convenience store. The clerk seemed to be having a rough day. I pulled out one of the ornaments and slid it across the counter to her. Her entire demeanor instantly changed! She looked up at me and asked that I sign the back of the ornament. She said “I never want to forget the lady that made my day so much better!”.
It only takes a moment to change someone’s day. Be kind.
Sunday, February 4, 2024
Genesis "Afterglow" (official audio)
Like the dust that settles all around me
I must find a new home
The ways and holes that used to give me shelter
Are all as one to me now
But I, I would search everywhere
Just to hear your call
And walk upon stranger roads than this one
In a world I used to know before
I miss you more
Than the sun reflecting off my pillow
Bringing the warmth of new life
And the sounds that echoed all around me
I caught a glimpse of in the night
Oh, but now - now I've lost everything
I give to you my soul
The meaning of all that I believed before
Escapes me in this world of none, no thing, no one
And I would search everywhere
Just to hear your call
And walk upon stranger roads than this one
In a world I used to know before
For now I've lost everything
I give to you my soul
The meaning of all that I believed before
Escapes me in this world of none
I miss you more
Thursday, February 1, 2024
What is the funniest joke you've been told that you still think about to this day?
[Posted on Quora.com by Dag Wood]
The day after his wife disappeared in a kayaking accident, an Anchorage man answered his door to find two grim-faced Alaska State Troopers.
“We’re sorry Mr. Wilkens, but we have some information about your wife,” said one of the troopers.
“Tell me! Did you find her?” Wilkens exclaimed.
The troopers looked at each other. One said, “We have some bad news, some good news, and some really great news. Which would you like to hear first?”
Fearing the worst, Mr. Wilkens said, “Give me the bad news first.”
The trooper said, “I’m sorry to tell you, sir, but this morning we found your wife’s body in Kachemak Bay.”
“Oh my God!” exclaimed Wilkens. Swallowing hard, he asked, “What’s the good news?”
The trooper continued, “When we pulled her up, she had 12 twenty-five-pound king crabs and 6 good-sized Dungeness crabs clinging to her, and we feel you are entitled to a share in the catch.”
Stunned, Mr. Wilkens demanded, “If that’s the good news, then what’s the great news?”
The trooper replied, “We’re gonna pull her up again tomorrow.”
The day after his wife disappeared in a kayaking accident, an Anchorage man answered his door to find two grim-faced Alaska State Troopers.
“We’re sorry Mr. Wilkens, but we have some information about your wife,” said one of the troopers.
“Tell me! Did you find her?” Wilkens exclaimed.
The troopers looked at each other. One said, “We have some bad news, some good news, and some really great news. Which would you like to hear first?”
Fearing the worst, Mr. Wilkens said, “Give me the bad news first.”
The trooper said, “I’m sorry to tell you, sir, but this morning we found your wife’s body in Kachemak Bay.”
“Oh my God!” exclaimed Wilkens. Swallowing hard, he asked, “What’s the good news?”
The trooper continued, “When we pulled her up, she had 12 twenty-five-pound king crabs and 6 good-sized Dungeness crabs clinging to her, and we feel you are entitled to a share in the catch.”
Stunned, Mr. Wilkens demanded, “If that’s the good news, then what’s the great news?”
The trooper replied, “We’re gonna pull her up again tomorrow.”
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